Game ideas for long car journeys with kids
Car journeys can feel like they go on FOREVER. Full disclosure - it’s my least favourite thing, being in the car with frustrated and sad kids, simply because you feel pretty helpless in the front seat! As they are getting a bit older, the tablets have become a life saver but travel sickness can kick in if they are on for too long. It’s also great to mix things up and have some family fun along the way. Here are a selection of games to play in the car, some absolute classics mixed with some that require a bit of prep.
I’ve added in some for little people as well as some for older children…
I Spy
A classic! One person picks something they see and says, "I spy with my little eye, something beginning with [letter]." The others guess what it is.
20 Questions
One player thinks of an object, animal, or person, and the others have 20 yes/no questions to figure out what it is.
Car Colour Counting
Choose a car color, and each player counts how many cars of that color they see in a set time (e.g., 5 or 10 minutes). The person with the highest count wins.
Road Trip Bingo
Create or print bingo cards with items like “red car,” “train crossing,” “dog in a car,” or “speed limit sign.” Mark off items as you spot them, and the first to get five in a row wins!
Backseat DJ Battle
Let the kids take turns being the DJ, playing their favorite songs. Each person gets 30 seconds to play their track and convince the rest why it's the best. The "judges" vote on who had the coolest pick.
Time Traveler
Ask each player to imagine they’ve traveled back in time or into the future. Everyone takes turns describing what the world looks like, what people wear, or what kind of technology or animals they see.
The Memory Game
The first player starts with "I’m going on a trip and I’m bringing..." and names an object (e.g., "a toothbrush"). The next person has to repeat that and add their own item. Keep going until someone forgets the list…
Soundtrack of the Trip
Assign a song or sound to different sights outside the car. For example, every time you see a truck, everyone has to make a silly truck sound, or when you pass a river, you hum a certain tune. The challenge is keeping up!
Invent a New Superhero
Each person in the car contributes to the creation of a superhero. One person starts with the hero's name, the next adds a power, another creates a weakness, and someone else invents their sidekick. See how crazy and creative your superhero becomes…
Mystery Storyteller
One person begins a story, but at random points, they must pass it to the next person, who must immediately continue the tale without hesitation. The sudden hand-offs make for unexpected twists.
Car Brand Battles
Choose two car brands (e.g., Ford vs. BMW). Each person picks a brand, and for a set time, you score a point every time you spot a car from your brand. The first to 10 wins the round.
Foreign Language Challenge
Pick a foreign word or phrase, and everyone in the car has to try and use it in sentences throughout the journey. Whoever uses it the most (and correctly!) by the end of the trip wins a prize.
Animal Name Game
One person names an animal, and the next person has to name another animal that starts with the last letter of the previous one (e.g., "Elephant" → "Tiger" → "Rabbit"). The game continues until someone can't think of an animal.
Would You Rather?
Take turns asking silly or tough questions like, "Would you rather have a pet dragon or a pet unicorn?"
The Alphabet Game
Find letters of the alphabet, in order, from road signs, license plates, or anything outside the car. The first person to complete A-Z wins.
License Plate Game
Try to spot license plates from as many different places (cities, regions, countries) as possible. Create a list and see how many you find during the trip.
Story Chain
One person starts a story with a sentence, and each player adds another sentence to keep it going. The story can take fun twists and turns!
Guess the Animal
One person makes animal sounds or gives clues, and others have to guess the animal they’re pretending to be.
Name That Tune
Hum or whistle a song, and the others have to guess what it is. You can even use the car radio to shuffle songs and guess them.
Count the Cows (or Other Animals)
If you're driving through rural areas, have a contest to see who can spot the most cows, horses, or other animals.
Top ten tips for a disney family holiday
Disneyland, Disney Family Holiday Ideas and Tips
Amazing! Here are my top 10 tips for visiting Disney with your family:
1. Time of Year – Go Off-Peak
Best Time to Go: Early January, February (after Presidents Day if US) and late September to mid-November are ideal times when the parks are less crowded and weather is mild. Avoid school holidays and weekends if possible!
Off-peak tickets are often cheaper, and hotel rates are lower.
2. Buy Merchandise Before You Go
Disney souvenirs can be expensive, especially in the parks. Stock up on Disney-themed items like T-shirts, ears, and toys before you travel. You can find affordable options at major retailers (think Primiark, Matalan or the Supermarkets) or online (Vinted is great), which can help you save money and avoid impulse buys. I suggest a surprise "Disney Box' with these items as a fun idea before you go for the kids, or to give them when they are about to set off for the park!
3. Stay at Value or Moderate Disney Resorts...
Disney hotels are convenient for early park access and transportation perks:
Value Resorts: For budget-friendly options, choose Disney's Pop Century or Art of Animation (family suites). They have fun themes and direct access to the Skyliner transportation system.
Moderate Resorts: Disney’s Port Orleans or Caribbean Beach offer more amenities and are still affordable. Staying on-site gives you access to free transportation within Disney and perks like Early Theme Park Entry.
4. Use Genie+ and Lightning Lane to Skip the Queues
Genie+ (a paid service) allows you to reserve access to select attractions, reducing wait times.
Individual Lightning Lane (another paid service) is available for Disney’s most popular rides.
Free Disney Genie offers personalized itinerary recommendations based on your preferences.
If Genie+ is too costly for the whole trip, use it only on the busiest days or at the most crowded parks.
5. Bring Your Own Snacks and Water
Disney allows you to bring your own food into the parks. This is a great way to save money on snacks, and you can bring refillable water bottles to avoid buying pricey bottled water.
6. Make Dining Reservations in Advance
Popular Disney restaurants fill up quickly. Reserve meals up to 60 days in advance for table-service options like:
Cinderella’s Royal Table (Magic Kingdom) – A fairytale dining experience.
‘Ohana (Polynesian Resort) – Family-style meals with a Polynesian twist.
Be Our Guest (Magic Kingdom) – Dine in the Beast’s castle.
Counter-service restaurants (like Satuli Canteen in Animal Kingdom) are more affordable than sit-down meals but still have delicious options.
7. Utilize Free Transportation
Disney’s buses, monorails, boats, and the Skyliner are all free for guests staying on Disney property, so you don’t need a rental car or to pay for parking. If you’re staying off-site, look for hotels that offer complimentary shuttle service to Disney parks.
8. Plan Your Itinerary by Park
Magic Kingdom (Orlando, Florida) is a must-visit for classic Disney charm, perfect for younger kids.
EPCOT is great for older kids and adults who love technology and world culture.
Animal Kingdom features immersive wildlife experiences and the stunning Pandora – The World of Avatar.
Disneyland (California) is the original park and has a more compact layout.
Tokyo DisneySea is often ranked as the best Disney park in the world, with unique, high-quality attractions.
If it's your first time, plan for 4-7 days to ensure you cover all parks at Walt Disney World (Florida) or Disneyland (California).
9. Use Disney Gift Cards to Budget
Purchase Disney gift cards before your trip and use them to pay for meals, merchandise, and more. This can help you stick to a budget, and occasionally, retailers offer discounts on Disney gift cards.
10. Consider Renting a Buggy
If you have young kids, renting a buggy is essential for keeping them comfortable as you explore the parks. You can rent directly from Disney, or there are third-party companies that deliver to your hotel for a cheaper rate. I always take my travel pushchair which is a Cybex model - full review of this on my website - but I love it as it fits in the overhead cabin. A great option if you want to take one with you.
Bonus Tips
Mobile Ordering: Use the My Disney Experience app to order food in advance at quick-service restaurants and avoid long lines.
PhotoPass and Memory Maker: If you love photos, consider purchasing Memory Maker to get unlimited downloads of all your photos from the parks.
Rider Switch: If you have small kids who can’t go on certain rides, use the Rider Switch program so parents can take turns on the rides without waiting in line twice.
Finally, if you've not booked your trip to Disney yet, I can do this all for you and take all the hassle out of planning - this service is totally free! Let me know! I'd be delighted to help. (I am an ABTA, ATOL and IATA certified agent with direct links to Disney!)
Enjoy!
Rutland Hideaways- Family Friendly UK Staycation - Dog FriendlY
Tucked away at the top of a winding gravel path, nestled in a vast, lush, grassy wildflower field, you'll find two beautifully hand crafted, stylish lodges which blend seamlessly into their peaceful, secluded surroundings. All you’ll hear while you sit on your private, cosy veranda, is the beautiful hum of the hedgerow, muntjac deer foraging nearby and perhaps you’ll catch a glimpse of a barn owl hunting the surrounding landscape at dusk.
This heavenly little slice of the UK countryside is the home of Rutland Hideaways - the perfect family friendly (and dog friendly) UK staycation.
Choosing a family friendly self catering accommodation in the UK
I must say I always struggle when it comes to finding and choosing family friendly self catering accommodation. I’ve got it wrong many (many) times (hence setting up Family Spy Club, so I can make all the mistakes and give you as readers only the best intel!)
In various locations over the years we’ve been met with hazards such as a sheer drop from the house to the garden (toddler A&E visit on holiday anyone?), unfenced ponds with an inviting layer of sludge on top of them (the antithesis of relaxation) and a general lack of anything child-friendly nearby, which in itself makes for a frustrating staycation - as your children are left bouncing off the walls.
I so often now rely on personal recommendations and Rutland Hideaways did in fact come as a tip off from an old friend of mine. I of course, had to oblige (no persuasion needed) and book in for a weekend away.
Rutland Hideaways - Accommodation
Following the unending popularity of their onsite converted, boutique two bedroom barn, The Cow Shed, owners Rachel and Chris told me they were keen to offer more guests the opportunity to experience the beauty and tranquillity of their small holding.
Kite Lodge and Fallow Lodge are brand new and only opened earlier this year (April 2024). Since so much of the charm of Chris and Rachel’s farm lies in its utter seclusion, guest privacy was high on the agenda. For this reason, despite having planning permission for six lodges, they chose to build just two - positioned with such consideration, making them incredibly discreet and allowing for guests never being overlooked.
As an example, we stayed in Kite Lodge and the bedroom window, which is the only window angled towards the main farmhouse, has had a young oak tree intentionally planted in the perfect spot to offer a privacy screen - and the angle of the lodge is such that you are completely hidden from view. From the veranda, you’d never even know there was another accommodation in the vicinity. During our stay, there was a multi generational family visiting Fallow Lodge with children and we genuinely didn’t hear or see a single thing. Equally, if you were to visit Rutland Hideaways with another family, friends or grandparents, this provides the wonderful balance between privacy and a sense of togetherness as you could join together in the outside areas.
Kite Lodge
Kite Lodge, named after the often frequenting, striking Red Kite birds of prey, is the farthest accommodation of the three and boasts a beautiful, large outdoor undercover veranda with comfortable seating and, like Fallow Lodge, a hot tub. If you are on the hunt for a family friendly UK staycation with a hot tub, look no further.
The lodge itself boasts two good sized bedrooms, the master bedroom having the addition of a luxurious, jet black roll top bath with a glorious green foliage inspired feature wall and pink neon sign reading ‘Good Vibes Only’. These are of course the only vibes we bring with us anyway…unless there has been a lot of traffic en route.
There is an additional, medium sized, modern main family bathroom with a shower available too just behind the kitchen area.
The second bedroom can accommodate two single beds (which could also be made into a double). We had ours kindly reconfigured before we arrived, with one single bed for our older daughter and a travel cot provided for our youngest. This was extremely thoughtful hosting - as we do often let accommodation know that we need a cot and this is simply squeezed into a corner. The fact the bed was taken away for our stay meant we had so much additional space for our belongings.
The beds were exquisitely comfortable and the pillows, towels and linen passed the FSC floof test. (I shall in time find a better name for this test - but for those of you who have read any other of my reviews will know, the mark of a good self catering accommodation often rests on the quality of their towels, linen and pillows.)
The kitchen is very well equipped with all the mod cons you’d need for a weekend. A couple of things to note for those with babies / those bottle feeding or mid weaning with purees - there is no microwave in the lodge but the electric hob served us just fine for warming milk and meals.
It’s decked out with a dishwasher (woohoo!) and a spacious oven as well as child friendly cutlery, plates and bowls. High chairs are available upon request. The Nespresso machine delivered a much need coffee hit each morning and we loved the stylish, velvet stools at the breakfast bar.
The living room area is welcoming and bougie, a plush velvet sofa and armchair with an expansive electric fireplace flickering below the 42 inch flat screen smart television.
I must say, what I loved most about this lodge was the undercover outside decked seating area. Reclining in the evening, gazing out onto the pristine open fields, with a glass of Rosé in one hand and a book in the other, absorbing the pure peace and quiet alongside surrounding wildlife was incredibly special. All of this, knowing the children were tucked up and sleeping soundly after a long day of fresh air and utter wholesomeness.
Parking and Accessibility
Upon arrival, parking is in a converted equestrian arena meaning a super surface (ie you won’t get bogged in during winter months!) and plenty of space to manoeuvre (important intel for the husbands amongst us perhaps - mine at least, likes to do his due dil on the parking arrangements - a key tick box for a successful road trip).
Due to the positioning of the lodges, you can’t drive directly up to them and park outside but two very handy carts are provided to transport your belongings (or transport the actual children in our case). If you have guests with mobility requirements, The Cow Shed is a better option than the Lodges themselves due to the undulated nature of the surrounding pathway. I’d also recommend bringing an off road buggy if you have one for younger children.
Extras
The things we loved about Rutland Hideaways were all the lovely little touches and extras available. Breakfast, dinner and BBQ packages could be arranged for you and there is a firepit in the garden, so logs and lighters can also be added on at surcharge if you want to enjoy an evening huddled around the fire.
Bring marshmallows!
Dog Friendly UK Self Catering
When we arrived we were greeted with a lovely little care package for our dog Wilma, including some locally sourced (and allergy friendly!) dog treats and a bowl.
There are wonderful walks nearby and a list of these is provided - there is a garden area and a huge field behind the lodge to have a good run around of an evening. You may even bump into one of the two lovely resident spaniels who will show you the best sniffing spots and rabbit holes.
A note for doggy guests that beds are not provided for you, plus the sofa is a no go zone so do bring your own.
An outdoor dog poo bin is provided for waste and I’d say if you had a nervous or reactive dog, this accommodation would be suitable since there is nothing in the vicinity to worry them. The garden isn’t totally enclosed so you’d have to keep any of the more unruly canines on a lead.
Things to Do with Families in Rutland
Rutland, the UK’s smallest county is well known for its idyllic countryside - serving up a peaceful retreat with its rolling hills, quaint villages, and the stunning Rutland Water reservoir. This vast lake is a haven for outdoor enthusiasts, offering activities such as sailing, fishing, and bird watching and is only a 20 minute drive from Rutland Hideaways. Many families do like to head to a coastal destination for their UK family mini breaks, but from now on, I’ll be giving as much airtime to inland counties as they are usually much more reasonably priced and have as much, if not more to offer.
Rutland's culinary scene is impressive, with numerous pubs, restaurants, and cafes serving delicious local produce. Throughout the year you’ll be treated to various food festivals and farmers' markets, all being a nod to the County's strong agricultural heritage.
We visited Woolfox for brunch, a stylish, scandi inspired wellness centre and private golf club with the addition of a gorgeous, muted tonal sheepskin adorned cafe. The food was exquisite - we enjoyed some glorious pastries, turkish eggs and banana bread french toast with homemade compote. Don’t miss it while you’re staying!
The picturesque Georgian market town of Stamford is a mere 15 minute drive from Rutland Hideaways and well worth a visit. We explored the town with our two children, there were plenty of sweet little shops, cafes and restaurants and there are events held here seasonally. Oakham (which is home to Oakham castle) and Uppingham are also worth a stop over if you enjoy a meandre.
Belvoir Castle made for an amazing day out - we were fortunate that there was a weekend event being held with lots of local stalls and produce but the castle and ground itself is seriously impressive, with a very comprehensive adventure playground. There is a fair bit of an uphill walk involved (ie. If you have children like mine who don’t love walking, get them mentally geared up beforehand!) but for those with genuine limited mobility and not just a couple of reluctant children, a shuttle service was available.
Just five minutes drive from Rutland Hideaways is the Spinney, a totally free, totally perfect outdoor adventure playground, spread across an area of forest, with an additional toddler friendly enclosed mini playground. This kept the girls entertained for hours.
Another local gem is the National Trust site of Woolsthorpe Manor - built in 1665 it is home to Isaac Newtons very famous ‘Tree’ where he developed his theory of gravity. For science enthusiasts this is a super stop over with some interactive activities and is a nice one to tick off the list of UK landmarks!
Rutland Hideaways have an extensive list of additional recommendations for nearby attractions and places to eat - you won’t be stuck for choice.
The Verdict
This family friendly, Dog Friendly UK self catering lodge is perfect for those looking for a slice of peace and quiet (as much as your children will allow of course). It’s super dog friendly, private and has an abundance of activities and delicious food in the local area to enjoy.
Ideal for a long weekend, a multi generational getaway or a mini break with friends. We visited in June but it is available all year round. If you do decide to visit during winter months, there isn’t masses of ‘hosting’ space available to spend lots of time indoors (unless you only have small babies or toddlers) but there is an outdoor heater so you can still enjoy the outside area. There is however so much going on locally that if you enjoy exploring and spending time outdoors whatever the weather, this is a wonderful base to curl up in at the end of the day.
Overall, we had a fantastic stay - it was truly parent pleasing, child friendly, dog friendly and fuss free.
Kaos - the ultimate family backpack
Let’s start with the fact that this product is Scandinavian. Maybe I don’t need to say anymore…
But I will (because I’m so keen to share this one with you). If you’ve read any of my other features you’ll know that being half Swedish, I’m a huge fan of all things Scandi as 9.9 times out of 10, the products are superior to pretty much anything else you’ll find on the market. Quality, durability, design - this bag from Norwegian brand - Kaos - ticks all of the boxes.
I’ve been searching for the ultimate family backpack for a while and I think this is currently the front runner. My challenges stem the fact that I often travel solo with both of my children and it’s hard to strike the balance between packing enough of what you need vs maneuverability: I’ve got to have a few sets of hands ideally…pushing the buggy, wrestling a toddler, carrying luggage and keeping an eye on an enthusiastic 6 year old.
If you’re on the hunt for a bag that is versatile enough to be your main luggage for a weekend getaway, as well as for outings, day trips and everyday use - Kaos have you covered. Crafted with durability and convenience in mind, this backpack boasts a sleek design that seamlessly blends style with functionality.
Capacity
One of the standout features is its spacious interior, which offers ample room to accommodate all your essentials and more. The bag cleverly splits into three compartments, which are also optional and interchangeable to one large main space. It opens via a sturdy, hard wearing zip around the front panel of the bag and via a clip from the top - so depending on how skilled a packer you are - it’s access all areas with ease.
Having three compartments (one larger and two smaller) is pretty much the ideal scenario for one adult and two children for a couple of nights away.
I was intiially surprised by how compact it was when it arrived but once you’ve started adding your items to it, you realise how much capacity you have to work with.
Dimensions: 28x50x28 cm (Cabin size)
Capacity: 40L
Weight: 1.5 kg
Features
In addition, this bag boasts an inside zip pocket, a hidden laptop pocket at the back, a side carry handle and passport pouch to one side.
Comfort
I found it incredibly comfortable to carry (padded straps) and due to the multiple handles, easy to grab from wherever it was. It is available in a variety of neutral unisex colourways (we have the olive green), is made from recycled PET-bottles, has details in premium vegan leather and features custom fitted hardware.
Final Thoughts
This bag recently won Bronze in ‘Best Travel Product For Parents’ at the Junior Design Awards 2023. Overall - I’d give it a solid 9/10 and at the price point (£169) it’s an investment but for the quality, you’ll get a huge amount of life out of it.
Family Spied & tried: Four Seasons Hampshire
The Four Seasons name is renowned Worldwide - synonymous with five star luxury, elegance and style. Whilst many of the group's residences are situated in popular city locations, its rural Hampshire offering is rather unique. Sitting proudly at the end of a long, sweeping driveway is a striking 18th century Georgian Manor, nestled on a vast 500 acre estate - Four Seasons Hampshire has a true sense of tranquillity, grandeur and charm.
This idyllic UK staycation spot caters to the needs and desires of every member of the family (including four legged canine guests!) promising an unforgettable stay immersed in natural beauty and refined hospitality.
Location
Four Seasons Hampshire is situated in Dogmersfield - a 15-minute taxi ride from Fleet station (a 45 minute train from London Waterloo) or by car, can be accessed from J5 of the M3 motorway. With an aptly named village location - Four Seasons is incredibly Dog friendly, so if you have a four legged family member, they are very welcome (and will undoubtedly be in a similar utopia to their human counterparts).
If you’re travelling from further afield, Heathrow airport is a mere 30 minutes away, or If you intend to arrive by private jet - Farnborough airfield is a 20 minute transfer. At Four Seasons, everything is possible and nothing is too much trouble.
Arrival
Upon arrival, we were greeted by a warm, welcoming team who went above and beyond. Valet parking whisked away our car and discreetly transported our bags up to our room whilst we relaxed in the drawing room adjacent to reception. When we arrived, the entranceway was adorned with an impressive display of flowers and Easter decor and this same theme was mirrored throughout the rest of the hotel.
The Hotel
With 133 rooms including 22 suites, this is a large manor hotel, however the layout has been carefully designed with so much natural light via a glass panelled walkway quadrant. This almost brings the outside in and means the size is not imposing. We stayed in the South Wing, in one of the hotel's signature Heritage rooms. All rooms have views out onto the grounds and feel both private and quiet. We were greeted by a lovely message to our two girls written on the mirror - which my eldest thought was so magical (I of course told her the fairies knew she was coming - the things we do as parents…)
For turndown, the girls were left a little glass bottle of milk with a straw as well as a cookie - which of course went down a treat.
Other small but thoughtful touches are included during your stay such as complimentary shoe cleaning - simply leave your shoes outside your room by 1am and they are returned to you early the following morning. Ideal if you have a meeting or event!
Facilities
I road tested the hotel's very well equipped Gym - which is available 24 hours and was lovely and quiet early in the morning. A range of exercise classes are on offer too and bookable on site, which include everything from Yoga to more cardio based sessions.
The large, naturally lit pool area is a real treat for the senses - housed in a large glass panelled atrium, it includes sauna and steam room and waterfall showers - but for me the real treat was the crisp, not overly chlorinated water and a set of doors which led to a secluded outdoor pool area.
If you’re a fan of spas - Four Seasons Hampshire offers a range of treatments - from Harley Street Facials and Kundalini Chakra Healing to more traditional Deep Tissue and Lymphatic Massages. Pregnancy massage is also on offer for expectant mamas to enjoy.
As with the other activities, spa treatments should be booked in advance to avoid disappointment.
Decor and design
We were impressed with the decor and detailing throughout the hotel. Each communal space was adorned with a large seasonal flower display and the restaurant and bar areas had beautiful, thoughtfully curated lighting and ornaments which complimented the soft furnishings and theme of each space.
Our room was equally luxurious and equipped with all conveniences - fluffy towels, soft, decadent crisp bedding, robes and slippers (for both adults and children) and of course, a well stocked mini bar.
Sustainability
Four Seasons is deeply committed to it’s sustainability efforts. In addition, the estate grounds are carefully managed and we were informed that in recent months, many new species of wildlife have made their home on the estate due to its considered efforts to retain and encourage the growth of wildflowers and biodiversity.
Things to do nearby
Hampshire is a county rich in sights and there is so much to do for families nearby. Local attractions include the very famous Stonehenge and Windsor Castle and for literary fans, the Jane Austen House Museum makes for a wonderful afternoon.
Additional sights include:
Birdworld - 10 miles (25 mins)
Finkley Down Farm - 30 miles (35 mins)
Legoland Windsor - 28 miles (40 mins)
Marwell Zoo - 34 miles (45 mins)
Peppa Pig World - 44 miles (50 mins)
From my personal perspective, this hotel really is an adventure in itself, there is so much to see and do that once we arrived, we absolutely did not want to leave. If you’re here for two or three nights, the children will have more than enough entertainment on site and you really have everything you need exactly where you are.
Activities available at Four Seasons Hampshire include:
Horse riding
Pony grooming sessions
Falconry
Fishing
Bird watching
Clay pigeon shooting
Canal boating on Basingstoke Canal
Cycling
Croquet
Tennis
We were fortunate enough to enjoy the most incredible falconry experience with the hotel's very experienced resident Falconer Simon, who I must say was a wonderful host and it was a real highlight of our stay. He treated us to an engaging and informative session (despite rather wet weather conditions!) where we met various species of birds of prey and had the opportunity to interact with them close up. If you are planning a stay at Four Seasons Hampshire - the Falconry experience is something you really won’t want to miss.
Pre booking is very much advised.
Food and Drink
We enjoyed the most delicious Easter themed Afternoon Tea in the drawing room when we arrived. The offering here is seasonal - it was rather a special way to begin our Four Seasons experience, with an array of delicious finger sandwiches and beautifully designed, intricate patisserie cakes.
Our evening meal was hosted in the on site Wild Carrot Restaurant. The atmosphere was relaxed and inviting, with many younger diners under the age of 8 which put us instantly at ease. There are not many five star settings which manage to curate an environment where children and fine dining go hand in hand - but the Wild Carrot has done just that.
We love the fact that children under 5 eat free here - taking all the guilt out of ordering a lovely meal which they do inevitably only eat a small part of (However delicious the food!). We didn’t need to worry about this thankfully as the children’s menu and desserts were very well received by the mini critics in our group!
Us adults were equally impressed - we tried the signature dishes of Hampshire Trout Tartare and braised lamb shoulder. Everything was prepared to perfection and was a true ode to local countryside flavours. All ingredients are sourced locally and sustainably and prepared under the guidance of Executive Chef Talha Barkin.
Our breakfast experience in Wild Carrot was equally as impressive - with a huge range of warm and continental options, as well as a dedicated Bloody Mary bar, you’ll be spoilt for choice and set up for the day.
If you are seeking a more laid back culinary option - in room dining is available around the clock. Perfect for those late night cravings once the children have dropped off to sleep…
Children at Four Seasons Hampshire
Children are at the forefront of the experiences at the hotel. When we checked in, my eldest was given a Four Seasons Kids passport - and what could be better than collecting stamps to stave off any inevitable restless moments! She received one straight away for being at reception and throughout the stay, as each area of the hotel was visited, she could pick up additional stamps.
Sharkies Reef was hot on our agenda and had been widely discussed before we arrived with friends who had stayed previously. This dedicated children's pool boasts a four metre slide, which I am delighted to share, was equipped with a generous padded area at the bottom. This saved my knees when I was roped in to joining the children (thank you Four Seasons!). Adjacent to the water features and slide was a children's pool which was also very swimmable for adults. This was great as it meant I didn’t have to spend two entire hours in 0.5m water with the children and could do some lengths whilst they played!
The adults pool does also offer family friendly slots from 4pm-7pm and at weekends 8am-10am so you do have this option too.
Childcare wise, Kids for All Seasons is the on site kids club and free for children over four years old (this can also be unsupervised by parents and the childcare team take over). When we visited, there was a huge variety of Easter themed crafts and games being enjoyed by everyone inside. There is a babysitting service too should you require it.
Included in your stay are a number of items which mean you don’t have to bring your own:
Cots
Bottle sterilisers
High chairs
Baby baths
Nappies
Swim nappies
Children's bathrobes
Bed guards
Sofa beds
perfect for…
A truly luxurious mini break or staycation. Four Seasons is the epitome of opulence and if you are looking for a weekend getaway to be waited on hand and foot, this is the place.
Avoid if…
You prefer a more low-key family break.
Price
Double rooms are available from £650 per night year-round with breakfast included.
Dining wise - starters in the Wild Carrot from £13 and main dishes range from £39-£59
Final Thoughts
Four Seasons Hotel Hampshire stands as a beacon of luxury and hospitality, offering families a quintessentially English retreat surrounded by natural beauty and timeless charm. From its rich history and elegant accommodation to its abundance of family-friendly activities, the hotel caters to the needs and desires of every guest. Whether you are seeking some outdoor adventure or indoor relaxation, adults and children alike will find everything they need and more at this idyllic countryside haven.
Family-Friendly Travel: The New Forest, UK
The New Forest: Family Staycation
Nestled in the idyllic countryside of southern England, only 1hr 30 minutes from London, lies the enchanting expanse of the New Forest National Park. The New Forests ancient woodland offers a tapestry of experiences that seamlessly blend history, wildlife, and adventure for all ages. Perhaps best known for its unspoilt wildlife, in particular, the free roaming ponies - it is a haven for families and nature enthusiasts. If you are anything like me and love horses, there is nothing more beautiful than the sight of wild ponies and it feels incredibly special to have this unique opportunity on our doorstep, right here in the UK.
I recall visiting a B&B in the New Forest when I was a child and the owner inviting the ponies in to the courtyard in the evenings - my Dad got a bit close to one of the mares with a foal at foot and wasn’t far off getting nipped - lesson learnt to respect the fact that they truly are wild! I told my family this story in the car on the way there about Grandpa which they found very entertaining…
If you’re looking for a UK based family staycation this year, The New Forest should most certainly be on your bucket list.
The Rich History of the New Forest
Steeped in centuries-old heritage, the New Forest holds a storied past that dates back to the time of William the Conqueror. Originally established as a royal hunting ground in 1079, the forest served as a playground for mediaeval monarchs seeking respite and recreation. Over the centuries, it evolved into a thriving ecosystem, shaped by human habitation, agriculture, and conservation efforts. Today, it stands as a testament to England's natural and cultural heritage, designated as a National Park in 2005 to protect its unique landscape and biodiversity.
Getting to The New Forest
Accessing the New Forest is a breeze, thanks to its strategic location and well-connected transport networks. Hiring a car (in my opinion) is certainly advisable if you want the best opportunity to explore.
By Car: For those travelling from London or nearby cities, driving to the New Forest is a popular option. The journey typically takes around 2-3 hours, offering scenic views along the way.
By Train: Several train services connect major cities like London, Southampton, and Bournemouth to stations near the New Forest, such as Brockenhurst and New Milton. From these stations, travellers can hop on local buses or taxis to reach their desired destinations within the forest.
By Bus: Local bus services operate within the New Forest, providing convenient access to various villages and attractions. Additionally, hop-on-hop-off tour buses offer a hassle-free way to explore multiple sites in a day, perfect for families looking to maximise their time.
Where to stay
We stayed at the beautiful Montagu Arms, in the heart of Beaulieu. This stunning hotel dates back to the 16th Century and is steeped in history. Upon entering reception, guests get a sense of this grandeur with dark oak beams, a sweeping staircase and carefully chosen antiques and decor (including some wonderful historical black and white images of the hotel itself). This traditional style and opulence within the main building - which consists of 22 en-suite rooms - is balanced with more modern, but still classically elegant courtyard rooms and duplex suites in the renovated barn. We stayed in ‘Juniper’, which was a beautiful, large family room with a stunning four poster bed, fold out sofa bed and cot for our baby.
The room led down some steps into a stylish bathroom, with a large free standing bath and separate shower, as well as a double sink. Although a small touch - travelling with children and having a double sink is a real treat when it comes to persuasive teeth-brushing conversations!
The hotel kindly provided little activity packs for the girls and very cute donkey shaped gingerbread biscuits! Both of which proved invaluable entertainment while we had some down time during a spell of rain. One thing you can’t bet on whilst away,, is the weather! We found the room SO comfortable and light - the fact that we had our own little walled garden made it feel cosy and private with no concerns about the children playing or making a bit of noise.
We were fortunate enough to have a sunny spell the following morning, during which we explored the forest and came across a herd of donkeys, who greeted us whilst making their way up the road. Interacting with wildlife in such an authentic way was such a privilege and for my eldest daughter who is six, was clearly a very seismic moment as she has been talking about her ‘Donkey friend’ ever since!
For garden lovers, The Montagu Arms has stunning Gertrude Jekyll-inspired grounds and a pond fountain designed by Giuseppe Lund. It is also home to an allotment and grows its own fresh produce for use in the hotel kitchen.
We enjoyed a wonderful evening meal at Monty’s restaurant, adjacent to the hotel. The atmosphere was laid back and welcoming and we were in the vicinity of a number of younger diners in high chairs who were locals! Always a good sign - and made us feel so at ease with the children. The food was fresh, tasty and unpretentious. The children's menu had a great range of dishes (plus some show stopping desserts which are a must! Save space!).
Our breakfast the next morning at the hotel was equally delicious, with a range of continental options and traditional a la carte. The croissants were fresh and fluffy and the coffee on point, what more could a parent ask for! The little ones tucked into the locally sourced sausages, bacon and eggs which went down a storm and set us up for a day of activities.
Overall, if you’re looking for a stylish, comfortable, traditional and welcoming English hotel, this one is for you.
Dog Friendly
We love the fact that The Montagu Arms welcomes dogs and there is so much to do with your four legged friends in the New Forest. The hotel shares their Top Five Local Dog Walks here - many of these walks are also ideal for children to join on their bikes, off road buggies or cruising in their toddler backpacks. Wellies are a must!
It’s important to note that due to wildlife, it’s advisable that dog’s are kept on the lead in the forest. Even our lovely Wilma who is incredibly well behaved wouldn’t be able to resist the temptation of a deer hopping out in front of her!
Top Family-Friendly Attractions in The New Forest
There is so much to do in The New Forest with Families, here are some of our favourites:
Beaulieu National Motor Museum:
Nestled amidst the verdant landscape of the New Forest, Beaulieu is a treasure trove of automotive history and innovation. The National Motor Museum boasts an impressive collection of over 250 vehicles, ranging from vintage classics to iconic supercars.
Prices: Adult tickets start from £25 and children (aged 5-16) from £14, and family tickets from £64.50. Prices are based on pre-booking.
Explore the stately Palace House, uncover the secrets of Beaulieu Abbey, and embark on a thrill seekers journey through the World of Top Gear.
Here families can encounter native and exotic species in their natural habitats including otters and Bison.
Prices: Adult tickets cost £15.95, children (aged 3-15) from £12.50, and family tickets from £51
Special Experiences: Engage in interactive keeper talks, explore adventure playgrounds, and participate in feeding sessions with select animals for unforgettable memories.
Paultons Park, Home of Peppa Pig World
If you have children of Peppa Pig loving age, Paultons Park is a must with themed rides to interactive play areas.
Prices: Admission prices vary based on factors such as the season and ticket type, with family-friendly packages available for budget-conscious visitors and children under 1m in height go free.
For a serene and enchanting experience, venture to Bolderwood Deer Sanctuary, where families can witness fallow deer roaming freely amidst ancient woodlands.
The deer viewing platform offers a prime vantage point for observing these creatures in their natural habitat and it’s a great opportunity to teach children about being quiet and still and observing wildlife (if that’s possible!)
Prices: Admission to the deer sanctuary is free of charge, offering families the opportunity to connect with nature without breaking the bank.
Insider Tip: Time your visit to coincide with the deer feeding sessions for an up-close and personal encounter.
Things to Consider
Traffic: Be aware that during peak tourist seasons, traffic can be a challenge, particularly on narrow country roads within the forest. We’d suggest visiting during quieter times if you can or plan your journeys accordingly - consider exploring lesser-known areas to avoid crowds and congestion.
Unfenced Water: The New Forest National Park has so many beautiful ponds and streams but most are not fenced off and can be deep, which is something to be conscious of when walking around with young children.
Ticks: As with any outdoor environment, it's essential to be mindful of ticks, which can carry diseases such as Lyme disease. Dress appropriately, use insect repellents, and do regular tick checks, particularly after spending time in wooded or grassy areas of the forest.
When to visit
The New Forest is beautiful all year round but this is what to expect throughout the seasons:
Spring (March to May)
Witness nature awakening from its winter slumber as vibrant flowers carpet the forest floor. This is the time to be conscious of wildlife and baby animals who might be hiding. The temperature is mild and ideal for outdoor adventures and fewer crowds compared to the summer months. Just be aware it can still be quite wet! Do bring appropriate rainwear and footwear.
Summer (June to August)
Bask in the warmth of the summer sun as the forest teems with life and energy. Explore lush greenery, partake in outdoor activities, and make the most of longer daylight hours. Be prepared for higher visitor numbers during peak season. Sunrise and sunset walks are a must depending on which end of the day you prefer!
Autumn (September to November)
Experience the enchanting beauty of autumn as the forest transforms into a kaleidoscope of golden hues. Revel in crisp air, rustling leaves, and opportunities for scenic walks.
Winter (December to February)
Embrace the tranquillity and peace of winter as the forest takes on a serene and magical ambiance. Enjoy cosy moments, spot wildlife against the backdrop of frost-kissed landscapes, and get away from the hustle and bustle. The ideal time to curl up and play board games by the fireplace!
Visiting the New Forest with Children
The New Forest promises a tapestry of cherished memories and unforgettable experiences and I’d certainly recommend visiting if you’re looking for a UK Family Staycation. From delving into the forest's rich history to encountering wildlife, there's something to captivate the hearts of visitors of all ages. My main tip would be to book ahead - this not only guarantees entry into some of the more popular attractions but saves money and time if you’re on a shorter visit. I’d also highly recommend bringing your dog if you have one - as the walks are wonderful and so scenic.
You’re (almost) guaranteed to see wild ponies too!
Tried & Tested: Pure Earth Collection - Swimwear Range
I first came across Pure Earth Collection a couple of years ago and have since become an avid fan of many of their products. This is not only because they are incredibly good quality, wash well and have proved so useful for travel - but they are one of my most trusted when it comes to organic, plastic free fabrics, ethical manufacturing and true sustainability, which is at the heart of the brand.
Before I give you the lowdown on their newest launch, can we please discuss one of my absolute travel staples which forms part of their range…
The Best Blackout Blinds for Travelling
Are you looking for the best pair of blackout blinds available? Then RUSH over to their website to buy these right now, HONESTLY! We use these daily and having tried various cheap versions of black out blinds in the past (which have swifty fallen apart or failed to do the job), these have revolutionised travelling with our baby. Not only are they a fantastic size (130cm x 200cm when opened up, folded in travel bag they condense to 32cm x 43cm and weigh approximately 1kg) but they have versatility in the shape of window they cover due to the multiple, sturdy suction cups which can be easily moved between the eyelets.
These travel blackout blinds are 100% organic and non toxic - so for hot windows this has been such a reassuring factor - knowing microplastics are not leaching into my daughters sleep environment.
Organic Bamboo Sleeping Bags for Babies
While we’re here - let’s also talk about Pure Earth Collection organic bamboo sleeping bags for babies. We have two of these and unlike many on the market - these are all season and due to the design and fabric, assist with temperature control. We certainly noticed a marked difference in our baby's sleep since using them but the key selling point for me was again, the fact that they don’t contain polyester like most others.
Sleeping bags come with a little pop on and off comforter toy too which means our daughter never loses it in her sleep, but it can also be removed to use elsewhere. Spares can be purchased separately if you, like us, are always losing things that our baby deposits when we’re on the move!
Not only are these suitable for room temperatures from 13C-27C, but the bags themselves are cleverly designed to fit from 3m – 3y, providing an economical and environmentally sustainable purchase. They are a true investment and can be passed on for years to come. If this wasn’t a reason enough to buy, the company have a cleaner Ocean pledge, with every bag sold they will remove 33 grams of plastic from our shores and oceans on your behalf. That’s around 3 plastic bottles or 110 plastic straws.
Since first writing about these around a year ago, we have used them consistently and they have washed and worn incredibly well.
Pure Earth Collection offer a 30 day money back guarantee on these so there is literally nothing to lose by giving them a try.
Swimwear
Pure Earth Collection have recently launched a very unique product - plastic free swimwear, made from organic cotton, using ocean safe, non-toxic dyes.
I’ll be honest, I didn't ever really consider the fact that swimming costumes contained plastic, but of course, they are all made with nylon and polyester and this is now very much on my radar. Conventional commercial swimwear contributes to microplastic pollution, a number of health complications and they shed thousands of plastic particles into the water.
The designs are incredibly sweet and come in two patterns and colourways - green with a palm tree print and yellow with a turtle print. My girls have the green version - I absolutely adore the ruffled back and bow.
Sizing is generous and made to last, with sizing in 3 yearly increments - 2-4y. 5-7y and 8-10y. My 6yo has the 8-10y version as she's on the taller side, so if you have a leggy little one I’d recommend sizing up.
If you’re off somewhere very hot on holiday, note that these swimming costumes won’t provide sun protection so should ideally be used in shady areas. I’ve written a piece on sun safety here which gives a few more tips and ideas on how to stay sun safe.
Although I can’t profess to be 100% to the letter when it comes to being environmentally friendly, I do my absolute best and these gorgeous products feel a step closer.
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The whizzer - Kids Travel Friendly Portable eco-Toilet
I have very clear memories from when we potty trained my first daughter aged 2. It was the Summer and we were lucky enough to be spending a few weeks in rural Sweden with my family. We opted for the ‘Go Wild’ technique. This is an entirely made up technique, which essentially entails your child being predominantly naked 12 hours per day (apart from her sun hat - it was warm of course and she was slathered in sun cream too), placing multiple potties all over the house and garden and reading her body language and cues for when she wanted to go to the toilet. She picked it up fairly quickly - however when we returned home to a less naked norm, it was trickier to maintain the progress we’d made.
I recall one instance - heading off for a family day trip to a child friendly farm, which was on a guided loop - making it challenging to turn around and exit because of all the other families behind us. At the mid point when we were truly cornered, she of course needed a wee - so on the narrow path I whipped out the enormous plastic potty I’d been lugging around and popped her on it. It felt less than ideal and didn’t really offer up any privacy - with the addition of the potty walk of shame as I balanced a precarious slippery device back to the toilets trying not to spill it, because it felt too embarrassing to decant in the middle of the walkway.
With all of this in mind, I was delighted to road test the Kids Whizzer by Kiddiwhizz. Since it’s launch in 2020 and with an appearance on Dragons Den, female entrepreneur and founder Zoe Chapman has taken the company from strength to strength and it’s become a household favourite amongst parents.
The concept of this compact and discreet portable eco toilet has also found it’s use elsewhere with adults. Whether you are on the go travelling, camping, at a festival, suffer from medical conditions or are on a long journey without suitable facilities, this is an ideal solution. In the past I have not been shy about my fandom for the original Shewee - the Whizzer feels like a huge step up as it actually contains the fluid and can be used anywhere.
The Kids Whizzer
My girls tried out the glow in the dark kids whizzer. This comes in five detachable parts and is very easy to assemble and user friendly. Accessories include a carry strap (which is super to loop on to a bag or hang in the car) and a water resistant bag for you to pop it into after use (once emptied of course).
The unisex soft silicone spout is designed to provide privacy and cover your child as they go to the toilet. It is also shaped to reduce any splashing or spillage. Once finished, simply remove the entirity of the top pieces and pour away discreetly. Theres a knack to this!
My eldest loved the fact that this Whizzer was truly glow in the dark (so many glow in the dark products fall short!) and found it simple and easy to use. My toddler was curious and found it good fun to play around with, which was all I wanted from her just now - it’s a gentle introduction with no pressure! It does of course look quite different to a standard potty so I’m glad I can introduce this to her from the get go, at the same time as a larger potty - so that she’s familiar with both before we require it out and about.
The only element that could potentially improve this product is if it had been able to be totally sealed and leak proof once your child has had a wee - in the rare instance you are unable to decant the waste straight away and need to carry it around. Saying this, it IS splash proof so won’t pour out easily and it’s a minor point as I don’t know if I’d ever trust any device that claims to be leakproof, having experienced too many water bottles soak through my bag in the past.
The Adult Whizzer
My husband of course found it highly amusing that I tried out the Whizzer (I am always FULLY committed to product testing!). My adult brain had to take a moment here but actually - if you trust the device and go for it - it’s really straight forward and neat to use. I WISH I’d had this when I was pregnant as I was in constant need of the toilet in awkward places, so I’m late to the party. We do however regularly go on long car journeys and camping trips, so this is going to be so useful.
It is of course larger than the Kids Whizzer and comfortably holds up to 500ml. How many ml is the average adult wee? It can be anywhere between 250-400ml so you’re very much in the safe zone.
The adult Whizzer folds down inside itself making it slightly wider but shorter in height than the Kids version. Just don’t confuse it with your coffee keep cup if you’re a tired parent on the go!
Verdict
These products are a bit of a no-brainer for travelling with children. It’s such a small item that can save you so much angst - we ALL go through those hair raising emergency loo situations with our children, so to have back up on our person feels like a fantastic use of packing space. The handy strap means you can hang it off a backpack so it doesn’t even need to take up room inside your hand luggage.
I’d recommend having more than one as it’s been useful having one in our car permanently and one in our bag. I would also probably have separate whizzers for each child too for hygiene reasons. At a price point of £19.99 I feel this is reasonable for how much use you’d get out of it over the years. They feel sturdy and built to last and come in a variety of colour ways aside from the Glow in The Dark version.
The Whizzer will be added to our packing list from now on!
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